never met the right guy and when i matured sufficiently to understand the truths of life, i realized that single parenthood is not something to aspire to. it's a rough job. there are some perks to being a single female. for me, enjoy the life of a single female or settle down with what i think is the right guy and have a family.those were the choices. since plan B never panned out, plan A worked out. those who are happiest in life can roll with the punches. life doesn't follow some plan you laid out, you have to adjust and adjust and through it all find your peace and your happiness.